“Always be the first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else” Judy Garland. Its human nature to emulate successful people, but its best to avoid going overboard and thinking you have to live exactly like them. Remember to always be yourself, no one in this world can do a better job of being you than you can. You need to Love, respect and value yourself, You are a unique individual with a personal style of your own. It is ok to be who you are without having to make excuses for not matching up to a standard someone else invented.
Once you accept your true personality something wonderful happens. You finally start being yourself and feel more relaxed, people will also respond to you positively and you’ll experience much more fun and greater success in life.
“Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong, there are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires courage.” Ralph Waldo Emerson.
4 Tips To Improve Your Self-Worth
1. Whatever you do in life, somebody somewhere will still think you are doing it all wrong. These negatively focus people who have the unique ability to find the only weed in an acre of roses, tend to focus on the negative and act like that one nasty weed discounts the beauty of the entire garden of roses. Don’t ever allow people like this pull you down or stop you from achieving your goals.
2. There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout; This is me! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me or leave me, Accept me or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like I'm worthless, just because I don’t fit your idea of who I should be and don’t try to change me to fit your pattern.
3. Don’t ever rely on someone else for your happiness and self-worth, Only you can be responsible for that. If you can’t love and respect yourself, no one else will be able to make that happen. There is no such thing as being perfect, Just be the best that you can be and you’ll be glad you did. Just because you are yet to achieve your goals or dreams doesn’t make you a failure. Stop all act of self-criticism, self-judgment, and self-destructive behavior.
4. Do not lose courage in considering your imperfections but instantly set about remedying them every day. Believe in yourself and what you want to achieve. Be strong and persistent in pursuing your goals. Be passionate and have faith, it's your life and only you can make it happen. Remember; only one person knows what is best for you and that is you!
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What a wonderful post, everybody should read it daily with morning coffee as a motivation
ReplyDeleteDaria's comment is spot on, your post was very motivational. It was only when I realized a few years ago that I am own best friend that I began to feel self worthy. It made such a big difference
ReplyDeleteWe should all give ourselves some motivational reads from time to time, as a way to push forward. Especially when we feel down. We need to get motivated and continue our work towards achieving our dreams.
ReplyDeleteGreat read, I really needed this. I need to believe in me and not rely on others to do so.
ReplyDeleteThis is so important to remember in this day with social media consuming most of our lives and how much we want to be accepted. I was in a job once where I seeked the acceptance of my superior so much that I let her belittle me and my work. It led to a lot of resentment, because she was the type to find a weed in a garden of roses. Not saying I’m the best at my job, but I knew my worth was a lot more than what she was giving me. After leaving that job my work has improved even more!
ReplyDeleteThis is such a timely post as we have already approached the end of this year and to look back and see what we have learnt in this year and how better we can improve ourselves.
ReplyDeleteThis is truly inspiring post for the people who value themselves less just because any other person tells rates them like this.. Maintaining self worth is something that adds up some positivity in attitude.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could drill this message into every young girl I see today - especially the part about not relying on someone else for your happiness. Marriage, money, etc - it's just trappings. You won't be happy with it unless you've learned what makes you happy. Hint - that doesn't come from someone else.
ReplyDeleteyou may be the ripest juiciest peach in the world but there is still going to be somebody who hates peaches...you just have have confidence in yourself...such great tips...
ReplyDeleteFantastic and wonderfully put, accepting yourself opens up the world to you. I went through this a few months ago, I feel like I've grown a lot and can give more as a result. Self love and self worth are so important. It can only start with us :)
ReplyDelete"Once you accept your true personality something wonderful happens. You finally start being yourself and feel more relaxed" - truer words have not been spoken. I related to that line so much. Being ourselves is the bravest thing we can do.
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Being yourself is one of the most difficult things you can do at times, but it is so wonderful. I take time to focus purely on myself and my happiness now which has helped me a lot because I've always struggled with self worth.
ReplyDeleteHow great are these words! It's enriching, encouraging and definitely uplifting! I'll definitely share this!
ReplyDeleteThese tips are wonderful and so true! No one is perfect but there’s always room for growth.
ReplyDeleteThis is so motivational post, all the points are so realistic and true. Realizing one's own self worth makes a great difference in the way people see you and also how you see yourself. Not replying on others foe your happiness, so true, I have learned it the hard way but ao true.
ReplyDeleteWonderful motivational thought and quotes. I really believe that you must love yourself enough first to love another person. 😍😄
ReplyDeleteSelf-worth is so important and these are great tips to remember. I’ve been doing some work with complete self-love the last few weeks. It is something we all strive for and no matter how far we get on journey, sometimes we need reminders. 🙂
ReplyDeleteThinking that you are worthy is so important and will in turn lead you on the right path to self worth - great motivational post x
ReplyDeleteI really love posts about staying motivated and keeping a positive outlook on things. it can be so easy sometimes to give in to the negative pressure of life, so this is a perfect place to turn when one has doubts
ReplyDeleteVery motivating indeed! I love the quotes you have here, I would love to read this again and again and be inspired always.
ReplyDeleteInspiring post on self worth. This is me who has to take care of myself to make me strong in all respects only then I will be able to take care of others.
ReplyDeleteThe third top is the best. How can you be your best version without doing it for you and doing it by yourself. People confuse self worth with arrogance and I’m not sure why
ReplyDeleteThis post was exactly what I needed, especially line two and four. It's been a hard week and I've been feeling completely down and reading your post definitely made me open up my eyes and look toward the positive. :)
ReplyDeleteGreat tips! It’s important to keep yourself on highest level in your own eyes. Keep it up
ReplyDeleteI should read posts like this more often. Self-worth is something on which I'm trying to work very hard ( maybe because I like to have everything perfect, oh
ReplyDeleteSelf worth is so important I loved all your quotes so encouraging!
ReplyDeleteSelf worth is so important! No one else can love you like you love you!
ReplyDeleteyes! i love all of these! How can you love other people without loving yourself!
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